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Goal Setting--Be Realistic #goals #Amwriting

6/26/2017

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I'm an inconsistent goal setter. I can't say I always have goals, but when I set one, I reach it one hundred percent of the time.

How do I do that while working full time, keeping up with my three kids who are typically involved in at least four sports at a time, making all our meals from scratch (because of my son's gluten allergy and cross-contamination issues), getting my two type 1 diabetic children to their monthly doctor's appointments an hour away, and finding time to write three books a year? Well, to put it simply, I'm a realist.

Life is crazy. Crazy busy. Crazy hectic. Crazy fun. And crazy stressful. But my writing career (on top of teaching full time) relaxes me. Having deadlines from my editor and publisher are actually a blessing in disguise. They are my excuse to find some ME time and get my work done. If I didn't have them, I wouldn't ever get to escape to my room for a few hours while Hubby cleans up dinner. It's my excuse to get out of practices (I don't miss games for writing, though) and sometimes even laundry.

There are obvious obligations and deadlines I can't control, which requires planning and organization. Two things I am good at and actually enjoy doing. With my busy life, if I didn't plan I'd never know if I was coming or going. Two of my three children have diseases which require me--and someday them--to be on top of things twenty-four seven. I can't say I'm successful there. Thankfully my children's school  nurses are amazing, and the kids are learning to be a bit more independent. 

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As for writing, my goal is to write three books a year. Before I was published, my goal was to write one a year. That's all I could manage without stressing myself out or letting something else go. And really, what could I give up? One of my kids? Their sports? My teaching job?

Since being published three years ago, I've learned so much from my amazing editors and publishing houses, which has also helped me become more prolific in my writing.

I write one book in the summer (today is my last day of school, so tomorrow I'll write Chapter 1 in my fifteenth novel), one during NaNo, finishing it during Christmas break, and I write another between January and the end of the school year. I typed THE END last night, making this year three in reaching my goal. 

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The key in my goal-setting success is pushing myself without over-doing it. I make goals that work for me. I don't watch much television and actually read less now, too. I was reading over a hundred books a year. I do miss reading that much, but I realized all that reading was taking up time I could use for writing. I read the most in the summer and now average about thirty books a year. A lot less than I'd like, but making a reading goal isn't something I feel will get me closer to my long term publishing goals (making a decent income). Reading is still a big part of my life, but now I balance it better with writing.

I know writers who make a goal to write five books a year. Others set out to write one. It's not a race or competition against each other. It's a challenge you need to make for yourself. Whether it be writing, reading, eating healthy, exercising, sleeping more, or even a work-related goal, start small. Make a goal you know you can reach. It's empowering when you reach it. Once you've met a handful of smaller goals, you can start making those big goals, the ones that may take a few years to reach.

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Have confidence in yourself. Plan. Organize. And most importantly, make time for yourself. Make sure the goals you set are for YOU and are going to make YOU happy. If it becomes "one more thing" and takes away from doing what you really love, then you need to reassess. 

I'm no expert, but this strategy and way of thinking has worked well for me. I'm no superwoman; there are millions of moms out there managing a whole heck of a lot more than I am and making it look effortless, but I often hear, "How do you do it all?". 

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The answer: I don't. I don't do it all. I do what matters to my family and then slice some time out for what matters to me. It's all about balance. 

Set some goals. Don't reach for the stars. Reach for your passion. Once you've reached it, the stars will be dangling right in front of you.

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A sweet smile, a dirty mind, and a playful heart.#booklover #romance

6/13/2017

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It's with great excitement that I share with you Mackenzie Pratt and Blake Riley's love story. They've made cameos in my previous Rocky Harbor books, and in Playful Hearts, they steal the show. 
 
Having fun and living his life on a whim is Blake Riley’s motto.
 
When he moves back to Rocky Harbor, Maine, he thinks his life is about to turn predictable…until he meets Mackenzie Pratt. Her smart mouth and quirky attitude make him want to see how wild they can get together. 
 
Mackenzie’s too busy running the local coffee shop and caring for her mom and doesn’t have time for a real relationship. However, a sex-lationship is just the thing she needs, and Blake, with his crazy sense of adventure and raw sex appeal, is the perfect man for the job.
 
As their relationship begins to creep from the bedroom and dangerously close to her heart, their casual trysts develop into something more—something neither expected. 
 
But Blake’s former life is full of secrets that threaten their developing relationship. Can Blake keep trouble away from Mackenzie? Or will their playful hearts grow cold when his past comes calling?

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eBook Links:
Amazon US: https://www.amazon.com/Playful-Hearts-Rocky-Harbor-Novel-ebook/dp/B072Q3J61Q
Amazon UK: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Playful-Hearts-Rocky-Harbor-Novel-ebook/dp/B072Q3J61Q
Amazon CA: https://www.amazon.ca/Playful-Hearts-Rocky-Harbor-Novel-ebook/dp/B072Q3J61Q
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